Relationship Coaching
Break free from limiting patterns, deepen intimacy, and co-create conscious, fulfilling relationships. Together, we challenge old assumptions, build authentic connection, and help love thrive on YOUR terms
Relationship Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
Have you ever wondered why your relationships don’t fully satisfy you — why it feels like something’s missing, even when everything should be fine? Often, it’s because you’ve never truly been given the space to ask for what you want — maybe you’re not even sure what that is yet.
My coaching helps you unearth those deeper desires, clarify your boundaries, and build relationships that are rooted in truth, not assumption in a non judgemental space where all is celebrated. Whether you’re navigating intimacy, family dynamics, friendship, or identity, we’ll work together to create a way of relating that feels authentic, empowering, and entirely yours.
I offer two unique paths to support your journey:
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Radical Relationship Coaching for those in more traditional or monogamous partnerships,
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Alternative Relationship Coaching for those exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, queer identity, asexuality, or any other nontraditional way of connecting.
Explore both below to see which one feels right for you.
"Phoenix really made me feel safe and held my emotional vulnerability when exploring my situation. Phoenix challenged me in an encouraging way to expand on my future goals without infringing upon my personal boundaries."
Bethany (she / they) Brighton
Radical Relationship Coaching
Radical Relationship Coaching is a space to come home to yourself. It’s not about fixing your relationship — it’s about filling your own cup first, so you can show up in all your connections with more clarity, ease, and integrity. When you feel grounded in who you are, your boundaries, your values — everything else starts to shift. Relationships become less about obligation and more about choice.
Whether you’re navigating an intimate partnership, a difficult family dynamic, or a friendship that feels out of sync, this coaching supports you to move through the world with more confidence, clarity, and self-trust. There’s no fixed formula — just space to be witnessed, reflect deeply, and reconnect with what feels true for you.
🌿 Outcome
You’ll leave with a deeper connection to your needs and a clearer path for honouring them — without guilt or shame. As your own cup fills, your relationships will begin to shift too — becoming more mutual, more spacious, and more rooted in honesty. This is a new way of being: one that puts you at the centre, so that giving and receiving becomes more easeful, not depleting.
For those in monogamous or more traditional relationship structures, including family and friendship dynamics.
Alternative Relationship Coaching
Alternative Relationship Coaching is about unlearning the scripts that don’t fit — and remembering that you get to define how you relate, who you love, and what connection means to you. Rooted in the values of the Relationship Anarchy Manifesto, this work invites you to rebuild your relationships from the inside out — starting with you.
Together, we’ll explore how to stop pouring from an empty cup, and instead build a life where your energy, your needs, and your truth come first. When you live in alignment with yourself — your body, your desires, your rhythms — everything else begins to flow more naturally. The way you communicate, set boundaries, and hold space for others becomes clearer and more authentic because it’s no longer coming at your own expense.
🌿 Outcome
You’ll leave with deeper self-knowledge, tools for communicating and relating with care, and a sense of empowerment that radiates through all areas of your life. This is about a new way of being — one where your relationships evolve because you are living more fully as yourself, and giving from a place of wholeness, not depletion.
For anyone exploring nontraditional relationship structures — including ENM, polyamory, queerness, asexuality, and identity-expansive ways of relating.
Next Steps
So, you’ve had a look around and coaching feels like it might be right for you — but you’re not totally sure yet. That’s exactly what the free 15-minute consultation is for. It’s a chance for us to connect, see how we vibe, and explore whether this coaching style feels like a good fit for where you are right now.
We’ll chat through what you're looking for, answer any questions, and explore which of my offerings might best support you.
Free Discovery Call
Book a free 15-minute discovery call to see how we vibe, explore your needs, and find the coaching style or package that’s right for you. It’s a no-pressure space to make sure we’re a good fit — for both of us.