Phoenix Goldenwalla
Life Coach & Energy Healer
Phone:
07902 932833
Email:
Address:
Untamed Embers Centre
Lincoln Avenue
Peaceheaven
BN10 7 JT
A Bit About Me
Through Sekhem energy healing, trauma-informed life coaching, transformational facilitation and deep inner work, I not only transformed my own life — healing on a cellular, emotional, and spiritual level — but reclaimed the power to walk unaided, live with purpose, and help others do the same.
I’m Phoenix Goldenwalla—a queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill life coach and space-holder who knows what it’s like to rise from the ashes when life falls apart.
I’ve faced spinal damage, disability, chronic illness, and a "hopeless" prognosis that left me in a wheelchair. I’ve known the ache of early bereavement, loss, and the heartbreak of having to reinvent myself when everything I’d built was taken away - again and again.
But I also know this: you can rise.
My journey took me from muddy fields and protected‑species surveys to ancient healing temples in India and Nepal—where I immersed myself in ancient teachings, Sekhem energy work, embodiment practices, and nervous‑system care. Each step taught me that true transformation isn’t about “fixing” yourself; it’s about unmasking your truth, embracing your fire, and rising—untamed.
Today, through Untamed Embers, I blend:
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Sekhem Energy Healing (ancient Egyptian lineage)
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Trauma‑informed Life Coaching (deep compassion + lived insight)
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Radical Relationship Coaching (redefine traditional relationships to work for you)
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Alternate Relationship Coaching (queer and ENM inclusive, deconstructing conditioning)
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Transformational Space‑Holding (inclusive, neurodivergent‑friendly spaces)
My why is simple: I’ve been told I couldn’t. I choose to believe you can. I create warm, accessible spaces—online and in person—where you’re free to show up as all of you. No masks. No boomerang burnout. Just steady, soulful growth.
Come unmask. Embrace your fire. Rise untamed. Your next chapter starts here.
It’s Time to Step Into Your Fire
Wherever you are on your journey — whether you’re ready to heal, grow, break free, or rediscover your fire — I’m here to walk beside you. At Untamed Embers, you’ll find a space where you are welcomed exactly as you are, where your challenges are met with compassion, and where your potential is nurtured with care. Together, we’ll create a path toward healing, resilience, and the wild, untamed life you were always meant to live.
At Untamed Embers, I help people reclaim the parts of themselves they were told were “too much,” “not enough,” or “not welcome.” My mission is to help you untame and decondition yourself — to rewrite the rules you inherited, question the stories you were told, and build a life, body, and relationship landscape that’s true to you.
The name Untamed Embers comes from that vision: helping you reignite the quiet fire inside you — the one that never fully went out — and turn it into your greatest source of freedom and fulfilment.
What I offer
I’m a MOE-certified life coach with additional training in Positive Intelligence®, Internal Family Systems-inspired work, ADHD and neurodiversity coaching. My coaching is deeply intuitive, trauma-informed, and tailored to the unique needs of each client. I am also trained in Sehkem energy healing, to ignite your transformation on the cellular level using quantum energy.
I offer:
✨ Sekhem Energy Healing — ancient Egyptian energy healing for deep, multidimensional transformation
🌿 Transformational Life Coaching (for growth across all life areas — identity, grief, change, burnout, purpose)
💥Alternative Relationship Coaching (ENM, LGBTQIA+, relationship anarchy, polyamory and more non- traditional relationship structures)
💛 Radical Relationship Coaching (for monogamous or traditional partnerships)
Wherever you are on your journey — we’ll walk it together.
Coaching
Whether you’re exploring alternative relationships, seeking more intention and fulfillment in a monogamous partnership, or craving a broader life transformation, I offer a compassionate, intuitive space where you can untangle old patterns, reclaim your voice, and chart a path that’s truly yours. I combine my own lived experience with evidence-based tools like Positive Intelligence®, Internal Family Systems-inspired work, and trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming approaches. My coaching is not just about setting goals or ticking boxes — it’s about transformation at the deepest level. Together, we go beyond surface-level change to help you build a life — and relationships — rooted in authenticity, resilience, and joy.
Sekhem Healing
Are you feeling stuck, burnt out, or disconnected — like something inside you is blocked, but you can’t quite name it? Maybe you’re carrying emotional weight that doesn’t seem to shift, or you’re tired of repeating the same patterns that keep you small. You might feel physically drained, emotionally overwhelmed, or just out of alignment with yourself. If you’re ready for real change — not just surface-level relief, but deep, soul-level transformation — Sekhem energy healing is here for you. It’s a powerful way to clear what no longer serves you, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and return to who you truly are. Sekhem is a profoundly powerful energy healing system that works at both the cellular and soul levels. It’s not just about relaxation or temporary relief — it’s about clearing deep-rooted blockages, activating your innate healing capacity, and reconnecting you to your highest potential. Sekhem’s multidimensional energy integrates earth and cosmic frequencies, allowing for rapid shifts that can touch physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual layers all at once.
Events
Do you ever feel like you’re walking this path alone — craving deeper connection, support, or simply a space where you can be fully yourself? That’s why I’ve created a range of events designed to bring like-minded people together for conscious connection and transformational growth. From Nature & Nurture to Roam & Relate, Embracinng Embers Gatherings, and Reimagining Relating, each workshop offers a unique opportunity to explore, heal, and evolve in community. These events are a more affordable way to access this deep work, and every space is designed to be safe, inclusive, and empowering. Because you shouldn’t have to walk the journey alone — and healing should never be out of reach.
Our Clients Say
"I’ve been to two ENM Roam and Relate walks now and had a wonderful time at both. I’m relatively new to non-monogamy and meeting people at different stages in their own journeys has been invaluable and made me feel a lot less alone. The sense of community and comfort at the events has been incredible and I’ve made some wonderful friends."
Tom (they / them) Brighton